SVU fans who are also "Special Victims"
Hello everyone!!! Im new to all the groups Ive joined. But this one is very special to me!! I was raped at 13. I watch SVU to see the predators get what they deserves!! It really helps me. Mariska Hargitay is my fav actress. I like her sooo much I named my little girl after her. Mariska Olivia Rain..........!! Im German just like Mariska H. and that name is beautiful and she inspires me. I hope if n e one needs my help with n e thing I will be here to help!! Thanks for everything to all!!!
i apologize for putting my abusers' real name and my # in my previous post. stress does wonders on people...no? he still hasn't been served yet and he actually called me yesterday saying "hey, i'm not violating the restraining order, i haven't been served yet" when in fact he was by phone via the Medford police and his mother's cell. so because he has warrants he refused to give the detective his address. and thats that. i feel depressed and helpless. they told me i can still go get the r.o. renewed for a year and let them know he has threatened me. (court)
so much drama...
In an effort to try and revive this community, I will be looking at our members more closely to make sure there is no one here who shouldn't be- such as survivors with age/play or daddy/daughter play in their interests. I want this community to be safe, therefore I will be going over all profiles and profiles of any new members. Also, as a caution- Please do not post identifying information or phone numbers. This is the internet and you have no control over who may contact you after posting such information.
There is another community _survivors_
which is is very safe and very active, I just wanted to throw that out there for additional support.
How did you guys react to it?
Personally, I thought it would mess with my head like Trials did. But I found it rather cathartic; I cried most of the time, heh.
I thought Olivia's symptoms were very realistic- the shaking, the spacing out, the not wanting to talk to her friends...
Sun, Feb. 24th, 2008, 05:55 am
I'm Jen; and rather new to this community.
Doesn't look like it's a very active group, though. :[
This community seemed a little dead... so I thought I'd say hello. :)
How is everyone?
i've subscribed to this person's YouTube channel because she makes some great SVU fan videos. this is the first one i've seen that's focused on the victims. it gave me goosebumps and got me teary-eyed but it also embodies the strength of the show and all the good Olivia and Elliot do for the victims.
as a side note, this community is really really dead. let's bring it back to life! i'm up for helping whether it's posting or redoing the layout or promoting more. :)
i posted about this a while ago, but since i got the new PostSecret book for Christmas, A Lifetime of Secrets
, i scanned the postcard for you to see. ( click!Collapse )
Hey...im new to this community...lucky me :( i mean clearly i didn't technically wanna be a member for obvious reasons but noe i have people who understand, and i really..and i mean really, need to vent. Don't get me wrong my friends...greatest people in the world they do what they can they make me laugh (which i suggest to all..never lose that sense of humor) but they haven't been through it, they want to understand but they can't possibly.
its only been about two months..if that, you never expect it to happen to you, you read about it, you watch it , but when it happens nothing will prepare you for it. i thought i didn't recognise the guy, turns out he went to my school and is only a few years older than me....here comes the venting THE DETECTIVES! WTF i tell him 3 fucking times what happened, and he tells me unless i remeber everything he cant fully believe me, and the police officer who was with me that night...MY HERO...i call her my Olivia lol she was awesome she stayed with me gave me her number and gave some form of hope then the detective shoot that right down..it had been about a month and id heard nothing and my friends mangaed to get me into town to celbrate my friends bday...having a great night then who do i se..you guessed it, needless to say my friends did what the detectives wouldn't and NOW THEYA RE THREATENED WITH ARREST! that is complete shit!...and the next day im told they dropped the charges coz i WASNT INTERESTED!...what i was hoping from all you guys was maybe some first-hand advice, iknow i should go to court and stop him, but the chances of me winning seem slim i dont wanna go through it again but should i? also did a shrink help? i only talk to the one at the hospital, but my mum wants me to see one at her work...thank you for creating this site for us :D ....also if someone could show me how to do an lj cut that would be great lol